《心动的信号6》情侣侯卓成、杨汝晴官宣分手:原定10月领证,三年恋情止步婚前

11月1日凌晨,恋爱综艺《心动的信号6》出身的情侣侯卓成、杨汝晴在各自的社交账号同步发文,宣布结束近三年的恋情。两人原定今年10月初领证结婚,这段被网友称为「恋综天花板」的感情,最终停在了领证之前。
杨汝晴在声明中写道:「我和卓成已经分开了。我们都曾尽最大努力给彼此信任与爱。反反复复地沟通调整,是真心希望找到某个方法,能解决两个人在性格、生活节奏、婚姻家庭与未来规划的矛盾。越靠近婚期,这个矛盾就越被放大。经过慎重讨论后,我们确认无法继续以恋人的方式走下去。继续消耗是对彼此的不负责,我们不愿再拖。分开没有原则性问题。」
侯卓成则表示,两人在婚姻、夫妻关系、家庭责任、未来人生规划等核心问题上无法达成一致,为对对方的人生负责,选择和平分开;他称自己「三年的爱问心无愧」,也坦言「已经无法拿出更多的爱」。他在文末请大家多照顾「脆弱的」杨汝晴,并写道希望公众记住此前相关事件的「始作俑者」是谁。这句话被部分网友解读为指向今年8月的聊天记录风波;随后他回应网友调侃的发帖一度登上热搜。
两人2023年在《心动的信号6》中相识相恋,节目结束后把恋情延续到了现实生活中。今年5月25日,侯卓成复刻节目中的告白场景,向杨汝晴求婚成功,原定8月22日举办订婚宴、10月初领证。但在8月,一段三年前的私密聊天记录被曝光,引发舆论风波,订婚宴随之推迟;侯卓成当时在直播中称两人没有分手,只是关系处于「比较脆弱的阶段」。两个多月后,两人还是宣布了分手。
'Heart Signal 6' Couple Hou Zhuocheng and Yang Ruqing Announce Their Breakup Weeks Before Their Planned Marriage Registration
In the early hours of November 1, Hou Zhuocheng and Yang Ruqing, the couple who met on the Chinese dating show 'Heart Signal 6,' posted simultaneous statements on their social media accounts announcing the end of their nearly three-year relationship. The pair had planned to register their marriage in early October; a romance fans had dubbed the gold standard of reality-show couples has ended just before the wedding.
In her statement, Yang wrote: 'Zhuocheng and I have parted. We both gave each other trust and love with our utmost effort. We talked and adjusted again and again, truly hoping to find a way to resolve our conflicts over personality, pace of life, marriage and family, and future plans. The closer the wedding came, the more those conflicts grew. After careful discussion, we confirmed we cannot continue as a couple. To keep draining each other would be irresponsible to us both, and we do not wish to drag it out. There is no matter of principle behind this split.'
Hou said the two could not reach agreement on core questions of marriage, spousal roles, family responsibility and future life plans, and chose a peaceful separation out of responsibility for each other's lives. He called his three years of love 'a clear conscience' while admitting he 'can no longer give more love.' He closed by asking the public to look after a 'fragile' Yang, and wrote that he hoped people would remember who the 'originator' of an earlier incident was, a line many readers took as a reference to an August controversy over leaked chat records. His replies to teasing commenters later briefly trended.
The two met on 'Heart Signal 6' in 2023 and continued dating after the show. On May 25 this year, Hou proposed by recreating his confession scene from the program; the engagement banquet was set for August 22 and the marriage registration for early October. In August, however, private chat records from three years earlier surfaced and caused an uproar, the banquet was postponed, and Hou said in a livestream that they had not broken up but were in a 'rather fragile stage.' Just over two months later, the split is official.
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